Imagine you were the one giving the massage, touching the silky skin and erotic curves of a women’s body. Your not a trained professional, but what really matters is perfecting your technique, using it as a powerful foreplay, connecting you to her body and exploring.
I’ll teach you in ten easy steps to use sensual massage as a way to connect with your lover, create a bond, and let the energies flow between you.
#1 SET THE MOOD
The massage is meant to be relaxing, you want to create the perfect atmosphere for her to be comfortable and able to relax.
Go for something sexy and soulful.
Try using a oil you’ve purchased from a spa supply shop, or an adult store. I’ve always used coconut oil for my massages, a natural oil such as hemp, hazelnut, argon or almond would all be a great choice to heighten her sences.
#4 INCENSE AND CANDLES
Just enough to transform the room from it’s normal everyday smell to something unique and special to really do it different tonight.
#5 RESIST THE URGE TO RUSH
Don’t be so quick to rush into anything sexual. Remember, the art of massage is all about the tease. You want this to be erotic, so build up slowly, intensifying as you get to the good stuff.
#6 TEASE AND INCREASE THE ANICIPATION
You want to give her the most pleasurable, sensual experience to make sure she is completely satisfied. Connect with her, create a bond by letting the sensual energies flow between your bodies.
#7 LET’S TALK MASSAGE
Begin with her shoulders, from there, work your way to her neck, down her arms all the way to her hands. Take things slow, ask her if your pressure to hard or to soft. When massaging her sit on her bum, it’ll turn her on. focus on her neck and shoulders.
#8 EVERYONE LOVES A GOOD BACK RUB
Work your way to her upper and lower back, take your time and use good pressure to relieve built up stress and pain. Compression is a technique of massage where you simply press down on an area, increasing the blood flow and loosening the muscle. Stroking is using long movements along a portion off the body. Remember to take your time and let her relax.
#9 HOW TO PROGRESS FROM MASSAGE TO SEX
If she’s on her stomach, slowly start to massage her thighs higher and higher.
Hold there and continue to massage her inner thigh, grazing her vagina. If after a few minutes she hasn’t resisted or told you to watch your hands, you are safe to proceed.
#10 HAPPY ENDING
Transition from massaging and sitting on top to lying beside her and kissing.
You can continue to touch and kiss her, she is already fully undressed and your in your shorts. Your both in bed and it’s as on as it’s ever been.
I can promise you a sensual massage from a man is every women’s fantasy. Follow these steps and use massage as a method of foreplay.